Currently, Mistress and i work together and are rarely apart. The week prior, Mistress had been doing a lot of work on Her degree at home and working on some other job opportunities which has led to U/Us spending time apart. i feel like it resulted in a renewed fondness for each other. i do not consciously think about this but it is evident that it directly effects O/our relationship. Several years ago W/we thought working together would be the best for both of U/us. my prior job kept me away from home and out late in weekdays and weekends. Somehow, i think W/we went the other extreme where W/we spend every waking moment together.
Do not get me wrong. i love being with Mistress all the time, but i think W/we have a difficult time juggling O/our work relationship in conjunction with O/our home relationship. Each of U/us reacts differently to the stress of the day. So what happens is that when W/we get home there is nothing new to share(or maybe even better, leave at work) about O/our day. Sometimes work creeps right on in and remains until W/we go to bed. This is very unfortunate and Mistress does not deserve this. This is why i think Her pursuits of another job will ultimately be better for O/our relationship.
When the day comes for Mistress to move to another job, i will be sad. i love waking up with Her. i love riding to work with Her. i love doing everything i can for Her at work. i love hearing Her ideas, thoughts, and feelings about work. i love working together with a common goal. i love that most of the time O/our day ends together. i will miss all of that. But, i will be glad that She will have something that will not be effected by me and will lead to Her growing more and more confident as my Domme.