Mistress and i have not ever taken time to count the amount of orgasms in an hour. i do recall in a hot session She climaxed 8-10 times.
Friday, December 17, 2010
Saturday, November 6, 2010
Last weekend Mistress allowed me to give Her another one of my full body massages. Even though She wasn't in a particularly sexual mood, it did lead to some intimate time and another opportunity to pleasure Her.
Tuesday, October 26, 2010
Wednesday, October 13, 2010
As a sub, i don't really think it is my place to be telling a soon to be Domme what to do. i really think your question would be better sent to my Mistress at Sensual Femdom.
But since you asked, i will give it my best shot.
i am assuming i am directing this to a woman. i would recommend first of all reading as many different male sub and Femdom blogs. No one couple has it right. Every situation is different, so You will have to pick piece from each blog to apply to Yourself.
Secondly, i would make sure there is a open line of communication. D/s is not for people who cannot communicate well. Make sure You know his limits and he knows Yours. Everything needs to be out in the open before You start down this road. Don't get frustrated if some of his limits are things You like. This will change and grow in time. There were things on my hard limits years ago that are on the "like" list. You just don't know.
Lastly, You need to decide together if this is just for play or the "real deal" Many of the bloggers i follow live the "real deal" as much 24/7 as possible. In those cases, it is so much more than what is going on in the bedroom. It is true submission and Domination.
It is a great lifestyle. Not for everyone. But i think more couples would be happier if they would just accept this dynamic in their existing vanilla relationship/
Monday, October 11, 2010
Saturday, October 9, 2010
Sunday, October 3, 2010
Mistress and i have been working through some tough issues that have been around for a majority of O/our marriage. In an effort to gain some perspective and get some time to think, Mistress went up to the city and rented a hotel room for the weekend. She was kind enough to allow me to come up to the city and take Her on a date like W/we used to do. It was so exciting getting ready with a new sense of vigor and energy. Something about going back to dating is very good in sparking that, well spark, that may have become dim over the years. It also reminds U/us why W/we got married in the first place. Anyway, Mistress, daughter, and i enjoyed a wonderful day together going out to a fair and spending quality time together. The only thing hanging over the whole event is why it took so long to happen.
Tuesday, September 28, 2010
Sunday, September 26, 2010
Yesterday was a great day. Mistress and i had made arrangements to meet friends to see Bruce Hornsby in concert which i was excited for. But the added bonus was that it led to Mistress getting dressed up in some new outfits She bought. She looked stunning! Mistress exuded sexiness as never before. The more Dominant She becomes, the hotter She gets. i am a lucky sub.
Monday, September 20, 2010
Saturday, September 11, 2010
Formspring Question:Do you ever feel ashamed of your submissiveness? The reason i ask is i am a submissive seeking a Dominant Woman and sometimes ( especially after orgasm) i have these feelings of shame springing im sure from the societal norm of the strong male figure.
i am actually proud of my submissiveness. i occasionally drop hints in my "vanilla life" that Mistress in charge. i really wish i could be even more open about it, but that won't happen any time soon. Frequently when i bring it up(of course in a very vanilla context), i usually sense a feeling of jealousy from any women i am around that their partner was not that way.
On the other hand, after orgasm i do feel ashamed if Mistress has not cum or been pleasured. i do feel very lucky that She will allow me to release on occasion and that She enjoys it(and it's Her will). But at the same time, i feel that my release should come last and i am ashamed that i am not able to please Her longer with Her cock.
i hope i answered Your question.
Monday, September 6, 2010
This weekend was a significant day in that Mistress was feeling Dominant and sexual after a long dry spell. She woke me up with the stroking of Her cock and a quick(very quick) ride on it. Having gone a long while without release has lead to an even more sensitive trigger on Her cock. i know it wasn't satisfying for Her but it was a good sign that things were looking up from this summer.
Friday, September 3, 2010
Is this a question or request? i think You may be asking the wrong person. The correct person to ask would be Mistress. As a matter of fact, She would most likely be happy to oblige and proceed with more extreme beatings.
Tuesday, August 17, 2010
It has been a while since i have posted. The last time i commented i was excited for a full week of childless time with Mistress. i am sad to say it did not end up being much of anything super exciting. Mistress and i enjoyed time together without being interrupted and being able to come and go as W/we wanted but not much beyond that.
Sunday, August 8, 2010
Are you asking what you would need to do to get a spanking from my Mistress? Most likely anything disrespectful or belligerent could get you a good ass beating. As far as getting a spanking in general, i am not sure. It really depends on your Mistress and Her temperament.
Not at of yet. Mistress as not used that as a form of punishment. i am sure it is mainly due to the fact that W/we have children around and there really isn't a proper opportunity for Her to place me there as She would like.
Saturday, July 3, 2010
Tomorrow evening, Mistress and i drop off O/our child at camp for the week. That is sleep away camp!!! Needless to say, i am very excited to spend true extended 24/7 D/s time with Mistress. i am already seeing sparks of it throughout this week as She would say something or smile in that sexy evil way.
Monday, June 28, 2010
|Futurama||Thursdays 10pm / 9c|
|Censoring Indecent Planets|
Saturday, June 26, 2010
i do have a fantasy of serving Mistress and "being myself" in front of other folks of like mind. i do not desire or enjoy public humiliation in the vanilla world. It becomes problematic with O/our jobs and the people that W/we are involved with in O/our vanilla life to do something like that. But thoughts of playing and serving outside to comfort of O/our bedroom and home is definitely on the fantasy list.
Friday, June 25, 2010
i have not. i am sure there have been many times that Mistress has expressed Her disapproval of something in public, but never disciplined....yet.
**Update-Mistress has reminded me of different times at O/our business when She would slap my face or pinch my nipples. This usually happened in front of O/our employees(who were kind of in on it). She also has verbally disciplined me in public at times also. As far as "in a play setting", not yet. W/we have not found folks that W/we feel comfortable with to play with at this time.
Monday, June 21, 2010
This is truly exciting!! i usually do not win anything. Mistress usually is the winner of many contests and prizes. i cannot take complete credit for the award becuase even though it is my blog, it would not exist without Mistress and Her insight and direction. For that, i am forever grateful.
Saturday, June 19, 2010
Thursday, June 17, 2010
It turned out to be a mutual discovery. W/we were having problems in the bedroom and after a long discussion about my inability to initiate intimate time between U/us, i told Mistress i wanted Her to take control. That led to reading and discovering the world of D/s. One of the funniest memories was being in Barnes and Noble and Mistress opening up a book on BDSM and showing me a picture of a sub all tied up and bound. i reacted with a violent "No!! That's not what i want!" The truth was, i didn't know what i wanted. It seems so funny in retrospect now that W/we have moved so far past it.
After exploring the bedroom side of D/s, Mistress discovered it was something She desired also. So W/we moved to a 24/7 relationship, with the beginning of it starting when She put on my metal collar after being away for a week on a business trip. The rest is history
Wednesday, June 16, 2010
Taking a page off of a blog i follow, Hornynecouple, i decided to also join up with formspring.me to allow readers to ask questions. i have had the meebo chat up from time to time but have only had a few folks take advantage of it while i was on. This way you can ask ANY question ANYTIME! You can ask in the box to the right or go here:
Saturday, June 5, 2010
Wednesday, June 2, 2010
Tuesday, May 11, 2010
Two incidents occurred that brought this post to mind. One was of the the post on one of the blogs i follow, King Unleashed. The other was some intimate time Mistress and i a week or so ago.
Well, today was the first time in a while that aspects of O/our D/s relationship met with a stranger in the vanilla world. Mistress and i had to be in the big city in the federal building to for a meeting about O/our finances and O/our business. Surprisingly, W/we had considered the possible problem of getting through security with my metal anklets on. Unfortunately, W/we couldn't locate the tool needed to remove them in time to leave. i figured that since i had already been through airport security with my metal collar without as much as a whisper that today would not be any different. Well, it seems the feds have better security than the airlines.
Thursday, April 29, 2010
"Rome was not built in a day"
Saturday, April 24, 2010
It was short lived. my time as houseboi was cut short by a positive thing, but still one that came with consequences. i was really looking forward to spending a large amount of time at home keeping the house nice and thinking of all things i can do for Mistress. This time was shortened by a job offer that became available and i really couldn't turn down. The pay wasn't great but it got me back into the original field i was in before W/we took over the business.
Thursday, March 18, 2010
W/we officially closed the doors on O/our business last Friday and one of the things i was looking forward to the most was being home and available for Mistress throughout the day. i find getting the house looking nice for Her and running errands for Her always makes me more submissive and happy that i am running around for Her.
Saturday, March 13, 2010
Yet again, i have seen two incidents of Femdom in the mainstream. Both, in a unlikely place. The first was a show on NPR called All Things Considered. They have been doing regular reports about the internet at age 40. Last weekend they highlighted the pink elephant in the room, sex. In the episode(here), they interviewed the CEO of Kink.com, Peter Acworth. Though this is not directly Femdom, many of the readers are aware that kink.com hosts a multitude of kink lifestyle sites, including Mistress' favorite, Men In Pain. i was kind of surprised considering all of the websites out there and their owners to speak to that they headed right to the area of kink. It seems that the area of kink and Femdom is creeping in little by little, each time.
Thursday, March 4, 2010
Saturday, February 6, 2010
Monday, February 1, 2010
Friday, January 22, 2010
2010 has begun with a roller coaster in O/our household. As many of you know Mistress and i had some play time right at the beginning of the year and are probably waiting for the first installment of O/our first video. i am waiting for approval from Mistress and then W/we will post it up for Your enjoyment(and my embarrassment).
Sunday, January 10, 2010
Everything went black when Mistress placed the blindfold on me. She then rattled through O/our cabinet to find what She was looking for. When She found what She was looking for, She said "I would like to try out my birthday present. i wasn't sure which one She was referring to, but as soon as She had me open my mouth i knew exactly what was on Her mind.
Thursday, January 7, 2010
Tuesday, January 5, 2010
Last Saturday W/we managed to make arrangements for O/our children so that W/we could have a quiet evening along before everyone went back to the work/school. So after dropping off the children, i returned home for a intimate evening with Mistress without disturbances.