Thursday, March 18, 2010

Working on becoming houseboi

W/we officially closed the doors on O/our business last Friday and one of the things i was looking forward to the most was being home and available for Mistress throughout the day. i find getting the house looking nice for Her and running errands for Her always makes me more submissive and happy that i am running around for Her.

Unfortunately, the week has not really allowed for me to be home much at all. Between getting things finished up at the business uninterrupted and trying to earn some side money to help make up for the lack of income from the business, it has left little time at home. i did get to enjoy a wonderful day with Mistress as She took off work for Her Dr.'s appointment and O/our appointment with the attorney. Though this is not the way i would choose to spend the day with Mistress, i enjoyed O/our time together immensely and look forward to other days like this in the future without the stressful appointments.

So now it's Thursday and i think this may be the first opportunity i may have to spend some time at home getting things in order. i will be also focusing on different ways that i can submit to Mistress while W/we are apart and i am at home throughout the day. No matter what, it is exciting to be looking at spending some quality time really focusing on Mistress and the family.

Saturday, March 13, 2010

Femdom in the Mainstream II

Yet again, i have seen two incidents of Femdom in the mainstream. Both, in a unlikely place. The first was a show on NPR called All Things Considered. They have been doing regular reports about the internet at age 40. Last weekend they highlighted the pink elephant in the room, sex. In the episode(here), they interviewed the CEO of, Peter Acworth. Though this is not directly Femdom, many of the readers are aware that hosts a multitude of kink lifestyle sites, including Mistress' favorite, Men In Pain. i was kind of surprised considering all of the websites out there and their owners to speak to that they headed right to the area of kink. It seems that the area of kink and Femdom is creeping in little by little, each time.

The other incident was on another show on NPR called, Fresh Aire. In this episode(here), Terry Gross interviews a former professional Dominatrix, Melissa Febos. This particular reference was more directly Femdom and She shared Her experiences as a Pro-Domme for four years. Mistress and i enjoyed sitting down and listening to this insightful interview. Not surprising, is how intelligent She is. Having an extensive higher education background and a job teaching at a college.

i love running into these little blips in O/our mainstream life as they become, slowly, part of everyone's daily life.

Thursday, March 4, 2010

Brace for Impact!

It has been a while since i have put up anything here. i apologize to my readers and to Mistress, as She expects a minimum of a weekly post. Unfortunately, i have let the stress of O/our failing business get in the way of my responsibilities to Mistress. Needless to say, i received the punishment i deserved. A good ass beating. Mistress knows that i do not like it(i am not a pain slut) but i do relish the fact that She enjoys giving a good spanking. And that makes me happy. She got me good this time. She sometimes hold back a little knowing how much i whine about the pain. But i got what i deserved and i plan to do better. Here is the evidence of said spanking:

Since my last posting i have made note of a trend in Mistress' orgasms. It seems that since O/our intimate time has been diminished more by the work load, that when Mistress does get time to have an orgasm, they are big. i mean big. Full body twitch and head thrashing. And it is hot!! But one of the problems that arises is that She usually doesn't have Herself in a good position when this happens so Her head is usually resting on the headboard. This leads to massive smacking of the back of Her head on the headboard. She doesn't seem to mind when it is happening but afterwards it usually leaves Her sore. i have been trying to make sure that when i am allowed to be present for these sessions and i am asked to assist, that i put my hand in between Her head and the headboard. This even occurred during a hot moment in the shower together and She ended up wacking up against the tile. Ouch!! All i know is that i need to be more attentive so that i can be included in these sessions so as to prevent Her from hurting herself. But all i can say is, She is hot!!