Food for Thought-Femdom in the Media

i thought i would share this gem from the 1970's. Made me giggle. Maybe 8 isn't enough?

Video Killed the Radio Star

Mistress has been requesting of me lately that i dismiss myself at work to the bathroom and stroke Her cock up to release and stop. Of course, i eagerly obeyed and decided to take it a step farther and provide some proof of the task at hand(no pun). i was able to prop up my new iPhone 3GS to video the stroking of Her cock. Mistress was very pleased and i discovered a new form of excitement i had not felt before. Almost a type of exhibitionism. But it was different in that i was turned on by knowing She would be watching it and possibly getting off, rubbing Herself while watching.

i wasn't sure She would like it but was reassured by Her following up with more tasks of similar nature. Each time, i started to think of how i could make it more sexy and appealing for Her. So i decided to include the teasing of myself before hand and then taking out Her cock. i was incredibly turned on by the thought of making Her wet and pleasuring Herself to this. It just seemed to build up like a snowball rolling down the hill.

What i was not expecting was Mistress posting one of these videos on Her blog for the world to see. i am a little embarrassed and a little bit proud, that She felt i was worthy to the world. It even seems some readers have been given the assignment to watch said video. Again, i am honored.

i am always to proud to serve Mistress, but this particular aspect has been quite exciting and i am looking forward to future assignments from my Love.

A Romantic Post

Mistress' number one complaint of me is my lack of romance. i cannot disagree with Her in that i find it challenging to be romantic(or at least express my love, devotion, and desire for Her) i am guilty of not expressing myself through romantic or thoughtful actions that i come up with on my own. From time to time i surprise Her with something out of the blue, but more often than not, i have to be provoked or reminded. i always feel bad that i am not naturally wired that way, but i am now turning my focus on my improvements on that aspect of O/our relationship. Up to now, i have worked towards making sure Mistress' needs are met and that my tasks and duties are being completed. Many of you who have been reading here know that i struggle with that also. As time has passed and i adjust to my new work duties, it is getting easier, which i hope will allow me to add that aspect to O/our relationship more often.

i know that this post was called "A Romantic Post", and it has been pretty clinical. i may not be the most romantic by nature person, but i can at least recognize romance. So i will direct you to someone who has put into words a very sweet, touching, and beautiful recollection of a personal experience. This comes from a blog you should definitely follow:

Let the Rain Come

Dark and quiet in the very early morning. The world is still around me. He breathes softly next to me. I reach my hand to him, feeling his warmth. He sighs a little as I stroke the skin of his back, from neck to waist. I turn to him and fit my hips against the curve of him, thigh against thigh, knee tucked in tight. Then with just a whisper I hear the rain begin.

It is so soft at first against the roof. We two are all alone in the small trailer here in the mountains. There is a darkness that is velvet and inky, it surrounds us. So seldom do we experience this much dark at home in the city. Little by little the rain grows. Little by little I stroke his skin harder and more. Down his side, then I reach around and stroke his chest, the pads of my fingers soft at first then I curve my fingers and let my nails drag a bit, then a bit harder down lower and lower. His sigh is deeper now. The rain falls harder now. He turns to me, kisses me full on the mouth, his hand running down my side.

"Will you stand with me outside in the rain?"

And so we slip on shoes but nothing else. And the rain falls through the canopy of the trees, huge oaks gather it on their palm shaped leaves and when it is too heavy to hold any longer they let spill down to the waiting earth. We step away from the doorway, away from the one small light on in the trailer that casts a soft glow out into the deep darkness. We stand together, warm naked bodies pressed chest to chest, hip to hip, thigh to thigh. And the rain is soft on our skin, our hair, our faces. We stand together and each turn our faces up to the falling rain. He stretches his hands up and out. I take my hands and touch him, feel him. From chest, to shoulder. Strong muscles pulled taut as he holds the pose. His hips press against me harder. His sex swells and I feel it against mine. My hands continue out along the plane of his outstretched arms until my hands reach his, my fingers curl against his palms. My face I press against his chest, that too now wet with the softly falling rain. Our skin where pressed together is hot, our skin where the rain has made us slick and wet is cool.

He curls his arms down and around me, his hands run down my rain wet back and lower still until he cups my ass pulling my hips even tighter to his swollen cock.

I kiss his lips again, open my mouth easily to him and taste this man I know with everything I am.

"Take me inside and make love to me."

from Honey's Hive

Even in virtual worlds

Yes, even in virtual worlds, Mistress beacons me to serve Her. For those of you on Facebook, there is an application/game called "Farmville" which is not to unlike the Sims or Sim City. The premise is that you farm your land and help others farm their land. You gain points and money by helping others and in turn can grow your farm even more. Well, Mistress has needed some help on Her farm to keep things rolling. There are many chores and tasks that need to get done. So, i created a "Farmville" account and proceeded to set up camp next to my love's location so that i may regularly help Her harvest and maintain Her farm.

Now, if i could only do something about my dress attire.
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A How To Video-Foot Massage

It is a lot of work being a Domme(so i have been told). So Mistress requested a foot massage from me, especially since O/our little one is away and i could spend more time and energy attending to Her needs. While She was lying on Her stomach surfing the web, She came across a video. This video demonstrates how to give a proper foot massage. i could see the video from where i was positioned and took note. The problem came when i couldn't replicate what the video was asking me to do since i was in a different position. i then insisted that i should do this correctly and desired to learn how to do it better than i have.

So i positioned Mistress around on Her back and set up the laptop so i could follow along. Mistress was immediately into Her relaxing moaning during the whole process. It's a great video. So i figured i would share for all of the subs out there looking to improve on their servicing of their Dommes feet.

Back, Legs & Feet:
How To Give A Stress Relieving Foot Massage

A Memorable Evening

Yesterday was one the most erotic and intense days i can remember experiencing with Mistress. There have been other times in which both of U/us were in "The Zone" but, this one takes the cake. Usually, these special times are very planned out and orchestrated in order to make for the best results. i would have to say the spontaneity was incredible.

The day started with my usual path of getting up and going to work. Mistress and i conversed back and forth via text and facebook throughout the day. Then, i got a text message. This usually means She doesn't want prying eyes to see. She commanded me to go into the bathroom and stroke Her cock while i was thinking of Her, up until orgasm. She has asked this of me in the past but now, i was armed with a new piece of technology, my iPhone 3GS. For those of you that don't know, the new iPhone has a video camera on it. So i figured that i would provide evidence on my completed task to Her.

i proceeded into the bathroom and began to stroke Her cock. It didn't take very long to get hard. Just thinking about Her getting off when She gets the video in Her email was enough to drive me nuts. It didn't take long to reach the edge of orgasm, after which i emailed Her the video. This filming thing is something i have been wanting to incorporate into O/our relationship for a while, and this was the perfect time.

As i went through the day i was always a little more "primed" than normal. Between the stroking and the thoughts of Mistress being pleased by Her new video.

i got home later that evening to discover that She had spent most of the day cleaning and checking things off of Her list. She even made a big batch of chili for the family. i felt very spoiled. The remainder of the evening continued pretty much uneventful since our child was around.

W/we both decided to turn in for the evening. Me in my uniform(nothing on) and Mistress in Her night clothes. i guess the sight of me laying there and the interactions of the day spawned Mistress to not let this evening end so quickly. She climbed on top of me, in that dominating way i oh so love and W/we kissed and made out. All the while She rubbed Her pussy up against my hard erection. i love it when She gets on top and just takes command of Her desires.

Then She got off and instructed me to get on my hands and knees. Feeling that i deserved punishment for neglecting my duties at home, She proceeded to whack me with Her crop. Again, not losing my erection all the while. Knowing that She is enjoying my punishment and the show She is getting.

Afterwards She had me lay on my back. i was instructed to touch Her now dripping pussy. Thats enough to make your heart rate increase!! Mistress has been talking about a good ass fucking for a while, and that's exactly what She did. Not the usual strap-on, but a double ended dildo.

Of course She was very caring and gentle to warm up my ass for the impending penetration. Using Her fingers with that "come here" gesture to rub my prostate. i feel like a puppet in Her hands when She does this. i am totally in Her control and at Her whim. After getting me started, She proceeded to the dildo. It was incredible to feel the long cock slide into my eager ass. Mistress also decided to compare my small member to the large cock She and i would be taking in. After inserted into me, She proceeded to put the other end in Her pussy. Rocking back and forth, i could feel the cock slide in and out of me as it slid in and out of Her. W/we are lucky that our daughter sleeps deep since the moaning and screaming was over the top. i think Mistress came several times. Each time She stopped, my cock would feel a warm burning sensation, the pulsing of my prostate. i could practically just stay there and most likely could cum. We repeated this several times until i could take no more. i begged and begged for Her to let me cum. In all of Her kindness i released a stream of cum like never before.

After W/we had come down from O/our sexual high, i was still moaning and semi hard for almost a half hour later. What a memorable night!!!

Adding to My Metal

This past week has really been wonderful with Mistress. For those of you who have not followed, Mistress and i had four days in a row kid free!!! This has been a first for U/us. It has allowed me to dress more appropiately at home and in front of Her. i know it pleases He when i wear just my leather collar, Her panties, and nothing else. In addition, Mistress mixed it up by purchasing a Rimba(e-stim) for U/us to play with. It didn't go as planned the first couple of times, but the desired effect was achieved on the third. You can read more on Her blog here.

Mistress also has me don Her silky night shirt when i was cold. It was nice to be free to serve and please Her in the ways She enjoys most. Usually W/we have to go away in order to have this quiet time and it changes up O/our routine. It was great to be able to stay in O/our daily routine with the added dimension even more present.

Quiet. Did i say quiet? Well, when it came to servicing Mistress, quiet was NOT the appropiate word. With no kids in earshot, my ears were treated to moans and screams as Mistress felt free to cum as hard and LOUD as She likes. What a treat. It makes me hard just thinking of it. i think She hurt Her voice a couple times this week.

You would also think it would be all about the sex. But it wasn't. It was better. W/we were also able to have full un-interrupted conversations and just enjoy each other without any other responsiblities. It was definitely something i was not expecting nor something i realized i had missed. For those of you with kids, you understand.

The icing on the cake was my new anklets. Oh so nice! i am so glad Mistress decided on something to substitute for my metal collar. i am getting quite a collection of metal.

It just goes to show you that you do not have to go away to special time with the one you worship and love!

Long Overdue Time

Mistress and i will finally be getting some long deserved quiet time when our daughter goes away to camp for the next four days. i am looking forward to spending quality time with Her. Pleasing, serving, and catering to Her in the way She really wants. i am working on some places to take Her that we normally do not get a chance to do since W/we have O/our daughter. i am sure several nice dinners out are in order. Maybe a movie. W/we will see. But this week needs to be time for Her. She certainly deserves it for all She does for me and everyone else.

i am also excited since Mistress purchased a Rimba and ordered anklets for me.

W/we will be sure to keep You updated on the week.

Her Presence

This week has been particularly stressful at work since Mistress has officially begun Her withdrawl from O/our business in order to prepare for Her new job. It means that i not only responsible for my usual tasks but also Hers. Needless to say, She does alot and i knew i would have big shoes to fill. To add to the stress of my first week without Her, W/we had a piece of machinary go down and one of O/our key employees has been out sick for two days this week. So things have been hectic.

What i did realize is how much i rely on Mistress for guidance and stabiliztion. i have always known my position in O/our relationship but never realized that just Her presence is enough to make me feel better with the world, no matter how bad it may be. i had one day this week that was especially crazy and She offered to come in even though She had planned to not do so. When She came into work She didn't even need to do anything. For what it was worth, She didn't do much at all. But Her mere presence was enough to set the universe right and make things better.

It just really shows that Mistress does have the powers Her title dictates and how much She makes my life better. i am a lucky sub.