Thoughts inspired by Mistress' comments

Mistress' new blog, Sensual Femdom has given Her a new outlet for Her thoughts and feelings. One of Her recent posts, She refers to the rigors of day to day life and their effect on the D/s relationship. I have commented before about struggling with this very problem and the observation of ebb and flow in such a relationship. This kind of give and take goes on in vanilla marriages as well, so i do not feel that this problem is unique by any way to the BDSM community.

i read another post by Mistress Vanilla in her blog Kink Unleashed. It makes me feel better knowing that W/we are not the only ones struggling with this. Life is hard. There are many distractions that come up. Especially when You have a family. Mistress Vanilla had an interesting take on it and a pretty good solution. She came up with an "Orgasm Quota" for a set time. It may sound too strict and not thoughtful, but it seemed like something that would appeal to me. Something concrete that could be measured. Maybe this is something Mistress may feel might make Her feel more Dominant. But the pitfall lies in when the goal is not met and that Dominance is lost.

i will continue to try to bring it out of Her. i regularly keep Her cock clean shaven for her enjoyment, as well as Her ass. But maybe i should work harder. Remembering to strip down to my slave clothes when the opportunity presents itself at home alone without the children. And offering Her more attention so that She feels loved and serviced. i had hoped the start of my HNT section may be the start of piquing Her interest more often, but maybe the pictures need to be amped up a bit.

i don't have the solution, but i am going to keep on working because i ache to please Her and enjoy knowing that She is fulfilled.

A Few of my Favorite Things

"Raindrops on roses and whiskers on kittens..." could be the beginning of this post, but with alternative items. One of my "Favorite Things" is orally pleasuring Mistress. It has been a while since She has requested servicing and when She did this weekend, i was very excited and eager. Mistress started out with me rubbing Her to orgasm several times and then me asking eagerly to finger Her for Her pleasure. Her response? "I have a other plans for you!"

Oh boy! It has been a long time since i have tasted Her lovely nectar. i then proceeded to lick Her beautiful pussy clean to give Her several orgasms. It's like a good food you haven't had in a while. You forget how good it tastes. You also forget how wonderful it is to make your Mistress cum this way.

Needless to say, this is one of my favorite things i hope Mistress continues to allow me to partake in.

HNT

Taking a page out of Kink Unleashed, i decided to get into having my own HNT. i was also inspired by Mistress' new blog Sensual Femdom when She describes not having the time or energy to direct to O/our D/s relationship. i figured maybe a little eye candy may please Her and remind Her of Her little bitch.

If You do not know about HNT. Let me explain. HNT stands for "Half-Nekkid Thursday". In summary, it usually involves posting pictures of Y/yourself. Though they can be naked, it is not a requirement. You can look at the guidelines shown here.

So i figured i would start my own HNT with Mistress' favorite eye candy, my nipples. Enjoy!

Great Story

i usually do not post about someone else's blog, but i felt this particular post was especially hot. Miss Vanilla has a great blog in which She documents Her voyage from a vanilla life to a kink lifestyle with the help of Her sub, Boy Toy. i assume She refers to Herself as Miss Vanilla because of Her starting point, not unlike Mistress and myself. Many of Her posts are insightful and offer a glimpse into a "real" D/s relationship and the goings on. What seems to make them especially real is the ebb and flow of Her playtime with Boy Toy. i am sure many folks in the D/s world can relate to the stresses and burdens of day to day life and their effect on the D/s interplay.

Take some time and read over Her particularly hot post here i think i may borrow some ideas from Mistress Vanilla as time moves on. Make sure to keep up and check out Her blog @ Kink Unleashed